Applying for college is no easy task. It comes with many exciting moments and nearly as many stressful moments. None are more dreaded than the application itself. There is significant pressure to create the ideal application, an underlying panic regarding self-reflection, and a fear of rejection. College is a stressful topic for many teenagers, making it all the more important to know how to manage that stress.
Today, students balance good grades, sports, extracurricular activities, and jobs. All of these elements contribute to an exceptional application. As they enter high school, students constantly hear reminders to do everything possible to create a strong resume. Now, for many, the time has come to submit that resume.
As students progress through the application process, their workload and anxieties about the future often increase. Expectations from family, friends, and even self-imposed standards can create intense pressure to have a clear idea of what they want to do for the rest of their lives. Many students become so overwhelmed by these expectations and decisions that they forget to enjoy their final year of high school. However, it does not have to be that way.
First and foremost, work on time. Time management is incredibly crucial when it comes to meeting so many deadlines. Managing your time still does not mean you have to rush. Take the time to process the information on the screen. It is crucial to fill out each part of the application honestly, accurately, and impressively. Creating a scheduled timeline will save you from last-minute application anxiety and leave you more time to review.
Procrastination often leads to significant anxiety for students and can result in feelings of regret when they rush through applications after weeks of delay. Luke Sanchez, a senior at Washingtonville High School, wishes he “didn’t rush, and [he] took [his] time making sure [he] knew what [he] was doing, and was doing it right.” Luke’s experience is certainly one shared by many students.
Here at WHS, there are so many different resources available to applicants. Take advantage of these outlets. Guidance counselors, teachers, and parents are just a few examples of those here to help during this agonizing time. It can ease stress immensely by having someone look over a supplemental piece or getting a 'thumbs up' from a guidance counselor confirming you are on the right path.
Binghamton freshman and Washingtonville alumni, Kathryn Lowenkron, shared her experiences with the college application process. "The application process can be stressful because there is a lot to consider, making it take longer than expected. I mostly relied on my parents for help. While it may seem overwhelming, much of the information you need is similar for each school. Once you get through it, you’ll feel accomplished." While the process may be challenging, the accomplishment and relief at the finish line make it all worthwhile.
Additionally, a portion of any college application is meant to show the applicant’s character and accomplishments. College admissions officers will spend time scanning applications for stand-out qualities based on limited information and the impression of the application. Take time to understand yourself: your interests or passions, hobbies, strengths, and weaknesses.
No matter how many colleges one applies to, maintaining balance is crucial. Manage stress with fun hobbies and activities, and maintain a healthy sleep schedule. While that may be difficult with the constant thoughts running around, sleep is a healthy outlet to escape these nagging thoughts.
Finally, focus on fit, not prestige. The best school is the one that suits individual needs and goals; the Ivy Leagues are not the best fit for everyone. It is important to have backup options both career and college-wise. Do your research, apply to as many schools as possible, and do not get too caught up in all the pressure. College decisions are just one step, not the ultimate determiner of success.
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